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Your Pain May Yield Your Purpose


Find your purpose is the phrase I have not only been hearing, but have been repeating and saying myself.

Finding your purpose is absolutely key to being able to live out that purpose.

After all, what you don't know, you cannot be, do or respond to.

As a Spiritual Counselor I have noticed that there are just as many people who are unable to identify their purpose, as those who have been able to, and in some cases easily.

So I ask myself my favorite question, "What is going on?"

This is my favorite question because no sooner than I ask, it seems that a path begins to open in order for me to begin to understand the answer.

Along this path of understanding, I was led to go back down my own specific path and begin to retrace my own steps to being able to FIND MY OWN PURPOSE.

What I found was that BEFORE I was able to identify my purpose, there was a lot of pain that absolutely needed to be cleared away before the sun began to shine.

Could it be that you are trying to put the cart before the horse?

Could it be that you are experiencing your own pain and hurt, and cannot see or feel past it in order to move beyond it?

It's likely for some.

And what I had to do was allow myself a "carved out" space in time to acknowledge that YES, I was feeling the pain of having carried so much over the years that I didn't know whether I was coming or going.

I told myself that I was ok and that it's ok for me to feel what I am feeling. I don't have to deny the pain.

In fact denying the pain over the years, is what kept me in pain for as long as I was.

I simply didn't know it!

My modus operandi?...Tears, tears and more tears.

Of course everyone is different in how you handle your pain.

The key is to be gentle and patient with yourself.

Not everything is a crisis, however you must DECIDE you are going to let go and move forward if this is what you truly desire to do.

Once THE DECISION IS TRULY MADE FROM YOUR CORE, you will know it and a shift will occur from the inside out.

Sometimes YOUR PAIN BECOMES YOUR PURPOSE in order for you to assist others through theirs.

For me?

I identified that it was because of the self-limiting and dis-empowering thoughts that I was holding onto, that I was in so much pain at the time.

This yielded a way for me to begin to understand how powerful we are as human beings, that we can get rid of those same self-limiting beliefs(because they no longer serve where you are headed so those thoughts "don't fit" anymore), and replace them with self-empowering thoughts that in turn, create new realities in your life as it did in my own life.


If this message is for you, ALLOW YOURSELF the space in time that you need in order to move on and be able to identify YOUR PURPOSE.

"You only know what you know, until you know something else." Lisa

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Lisa is Metaphysical Spiritual Counselor and “Imagination Hacker” who works with men and women who are ready to “step into their own,” are ready to move beyond their past experiences and programs, and are willing to unlearn to relearn what has been taught in this game we call Reality. Lisa understands what it means to be on your journey of personal expansion and transformation, and knows specifically how important it is to have access to a safe and supportive space. Lisa knows through her own experience which she shares with her clients, that by understanding who you are foundationally and scientifically, and by paying attention to your thoughts and the effect your thoughts have on you vibrationally, mystery and dogma disappear allowing you to do your own inner work more freely.

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